Dear Cathy: How do I stop my 8-month-old cat from biting me? I think he wants attention but that’s a lousy way to get it. He doesn’t bite my partner, just me. Also, are there any ways to keep the same kitten from pulling all the toilet paper off the rolls? — Judy, Tucson, Arizona
Dear Judy: An 8-month-old kitten is probably biting because he is teething, and his gums are sore. It’s likely just a phase, but phases need to be monitored and managed to ensure they don’t become habits.
Cat play is nothing more than a display of a feline’s hunting behaviors, which means they stalk, pounce and bite things when playing. To avoid getting bitten, never use your hands as playthings. Keep stuffed socks, feathered wands, and other cat toys handy to quickly distract and play with your cat instead. This will keep your hands free from bites and your cat happy and content.
Some cats though, take biting a step further. One minute, you’re petting your cat and having a happy moment, the next your cat nails you with their claws or mouth.
This is always a scary moment for the pet parent who wonders what on earth they did to deserve a bite? Or they wonder what’s wrong with their cat?
Assess their tolerance to touch

There is nothing wrong with your cat and your cat is not misbehaving. But as a pet parent, you did do something wrong. You likely stroked your cat above his level of tolerance while your partner may stroke the cat below his level of tolerance. Cats are extremely sensitive to touch and other stimuli and when they are overstimulated, biting is often their go-to to tell you to stop petting them or remove the stimulus in the room. It’s called petting-induced or overstimulation aggression and is fairly common among cats. This behavior has nothing to do with how the cat feels about you, but with what is happening around them.
Be respectful of your feline’s tolerance for touch. Some cats might tolerate five minutes of petting, another cat may only tolerate five strokes, before they turn and bite the hand that feeds them.
There are warning signs, like ears that twitch back, dilated pupils, and a rigid, slow-moving tail. Learn your cat’s tolerance for touch and don’t pet him one stroke more.
It’s instinctive to want to pet your cat, but sometimes you have to override your instincts to abide by your feline’s wishes. Cats generally are content sleeping on your lap and maintaining contact with you in that way. Even if you are not petting your cat, you both will still benefit from the close contact.
Rambunctious reactions

Pent-up energy also can contribute to overstimulation aggression. Exercise helps. Make sure your feline has lots of toys, a cat tree, and at least 10 minutes of playtime/exercise, twice daily. If cats are tired from play, they are less likely to be aggressive and/or bite.
To address your second question, there are covers you can mount on the wall to keep your cat from unrolling the toilet paper.
You also can put the toilet paper on the roller, so the paper has to be pulled from the back of the roll, making it harder, but not impossible, to pull on. You also can place it out of your cat’s reach, like in a basket on the counter or on the tank of the commode.
Cathy M. Rosenthal is a longtime animal advocate, author, columnist and pet expert who has more than 25 years in the animal welfare field. Send your pet questions, stories and tips to cathy@petpundit.com. Please include your name, city, and state. You can follow her @cathymrosenthal.
20 photos to celebrate our feline friends:
Larry the Downing Street cat

Larry, the official 10 Downing Street cat in London, on May 7, 2020. (AP Photo/Alberto Pezzali)
Cats vs. pigeon

Cats stare at a pigeon from inside a window in Bucharest, Romania, April 23, 2020. (AP Photo/Vadim Ghirda)
A cat named Bonnie

A cat named Bonnie walks on the shoulder of Rachel Romero, who wears a protective face covering as she works as a volunteer at the Cat Cafe South Beach, during the coronavirus pandemic, July 29, 2020, in Miami Beach, Fla. The cafe offers a place for cat lovers to spend time with cats, which are also available for adoption. (AP Photo/Lynne Sladky)
Cat cafe

A cat has its hair brushed at the Caturday Cafe in Bangkok, Thailand, on May 8, 2020. (AP Photo/Sakchai Lalit)
Cat gets temperature checked

In this May 8, 2020, file photo, the owner of a cat cafe checks the temperature of one of her cats in Bangkok, Thailand. (AP Photo/Sakchai Lalit)
Texas girl and her cat

Arfa Yousuf, 8, holds her pet cat after completing her martial arts virtual belt test at her home in Richardson, Texas, April 23, 2020. (AP Photo/LM Otero)
Oscar the cat

In this Sept. 20, 2017, file photo, Oscar the cat, who is not a service animal, sits in his carry-on travel bag after arriving at Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport. (AP Photo/Ross D. Franklin)
Boris the cat

Boris the cat attends the Los Angeles premiere of season 5 of "Outlander" at the Hollywood Palladium on Feb. 13, 2020, in Los Angeles. (Photo by Willy Sanjuan/Invision/AP Images)
Belarus cat

A woman displays her cat in a fashion costume during a cat exhibition in Minsk, Belarus, Feb. 16, 2020. (AP Photo/Sergei Grits)
Mr. Needy the cat

Human rights lawyer Geoffrey Nice holds his cat that he calls Mr. Needy at his home in Adisham, England, Sept. 2, 2020. (AP Photo/Frank Augstein)
Brazil cat

A cat looks out from an enclosure at the animal city shelter in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, Sept. 11, 2020. After seeing the number of adoptions go down to zero in the beginning of the new coronavirus pandemic, the Rio city shelter celebrated the success of its Pet Delivery program. Now, administrators running animal shelters are offering pets through a virtual system that allows prospective owners to browse online and, after choosing a pet, the shelter brings the animal to their homes, bathed, spayed and with all inoculations. (AP Photo/Silvia Izquierdo)
Cat called Toma

A man wearing a mask to curb the spread of the new coronavirus carries his cat called Toma on his shoulders as he walks in downtown Quito, Ecuador, Sept. 14, 2020. (AP Photo/Dolores Ochoa)
Bob the cat

In this Nov. 3, 2016, file photo, Bob the cat arrives at the premiere of the film "A Street Cat Named Bob" in London. Bob's relationship with James Bowen, a recovering heroin addict who adopted him, inspired a book and the film. (AP Photo/Alastair Grant)
Palmerston the Foreign Office cat

In this Feb. 12, 2019, file photo, Palmerston, the Foreign Office cat, sits on a photographer's ladder at Downing Street in London. On Aug. 7, 2020, it was announced that Palmerston was retiring to the countryside after four years on the job. (AP Photo/Kirsty Wigglesworth)
Brazil cats

Cats eat from a food dispenser filled up by volunteers from Animal Heart Protectors on Furtada Island, popularly known as “Island of the Cats,” in Mangaratiba, Brazil, Oct. 13, 2020. (AP Photo/Silvia Izquierdo)
Island of the Cats

A cat roams on Furtada Island, popularly known as “Island of the Cats,” in Mangaratiba, Brazil, Oct. 13, 2020. (AP Photo/Silvia Izquierdo)
Bulgaria cat

A cat rests on the gate of a house in a village on the outskirts of Burgas, Bulgaria, Sept. 28, 2020. (AP Photo/Vadim Ghirda)
Britain's Chief Mouser

Larry the cat, Britain's Chief Mouser to the Cabinet Office, sits in Downing Street ahead of a Cabinet meeting in London, Oct. 20, 2020. (AP Photo/Kirsty Wigglesworth)
Romania cat

A cat stares from a window in Constanta, Romania, on Jan. 6, 2020. (AP Photo/Vadim Ghirda)
'Do You Look Like Your Cat?'

This image shows "Do You Look Like Your Cat?" a card memory game that matches cat cards with human cards. (Laurence King Publishing via AP)
Post a comment as
Report
Watch this discussion.
(0) comments
Welcome to the discussion.
Log In
Keep it Clean. Please avoid obscene, vulgar, lewd, racist or sexually-oriented language.
PLEASE TURN OFF YOUR CAPS LOCK.
Don't Threaten. Threats of harming another person will not be tolerated.
Be Truthful. Don't knowingly lie about anyone or anything.
Be Nice. No racism, sexism or any sort of -ism that is degrading to another person.
Be Proactive. Use the 'Report' link on each comment to let us know of abusive posts.
Share with Us. We'd love to hear eyewitness accounts, the history behind an article.